A Road Without Obstacles is not Worth Traveling

Yesterday I was handed the best letter I have ever received.

I was at St. Monica’s Home for Girls for the first time. Earlier in the day I had met Sarah, a 17-year-old junior in high school who has been living at St. Monica’s since fourth grade. Extremely intelligent, with a vocabulary and life philosophy well beyond her years, Sarah discussed the Kenyan school system, as well as her desire to go to university and become a lawyer.

Sarah also revealed that she loves to write. I told her that I am a writer by profession—and that just like her, I used to write all throughout my childhood and school years. We chatted for a few minutes about writing.

A few hours later, as everyone was grouped together watching the movie Happy Feet, I felt something being pressed into my hand. It was a well-folded note, passed from Sarah on to me. I opened it and read:

You have inspired me by hearing that you also love writing just as I do. I hope to learn more from you and also talk a couple of times before you leave. Thank you for offering to come and spend your time with us. God bless you and I love you and appreciate your coming.”

I felt surprised, but also touched and honored, that in those few minutes I had somehow inspired Sarah in some small way. I asked her if she would like to write for me, inviting her to contribute to my stories about St. Monica’s. She seemed eager to do so—to have her words read by others, her voice heard. We agreed that she would do some writing about her life, and share with me the next day.

I was blown away by the three pages of pure, distilled life that Sarah handed me when I returned the following day. And with that, I end my words and give you Sarah’s. And I tell you—you will not believe the writer of them is only 17 years old.

 St. Monica’s has been an epic journey for me since I got a chance to be there. It was not a tragic mistake in any way. It was just God’s plan so that I could fulfill the dream He had in mind when I was born.

At first I used to view this orphanage life as a punishment from God. I always felt isolated whenever I went to school where only one or two are orphans. Life to me was a real tragedy; I could see life with no useful meaning or value. I always saw myself as a discouragement to those who wished to be my heroes. Communicating to people was also a hell gate to knowing people, according to me.

But the MFFO volunteers add to us joy and happiness, and lay a bright ray of hope for us each time we get a chance to see them. They give us the motive of acting and leaping fearlessly, despite all the struggles and tangles of life.

We have as well gone through a few challenges, leaving us to learn that disappointments will come and will always be there in life, since a road without obstacles is not worth traveling. The road to the prize is much more precious than the prize itself.

I have personally learnt how to view life differently, especially in an optimistic way, and seeing every chance as an opportunity to welcome changes in my life. This is because the biggest room in the world, is the room to keep changing.

Some of us view life as something unfair to live. To me life is a cash register; in that every account, every thought and every deed—like every sale—is registered and recorded. We are here to add what we can to life, not to get what we can from it.

I’m always very glad for anyone who lends a helping hand to people like orphans. It may seem to be a burden to many, but a wonderful thing to some. We should always help the less advantaged in this life because their lives hold more to them than what you might think.

St. Monica’s has really moved my life up to where I am right now. I can now stand before millions of people and shout to the whole world that despite all that I faced when I was young, I can as well make a big difference to many people who may feel as outcasts in this life. I came to learn that we need not be satisfied with what we have since we were born to change our lives to be stars. We were all born to be heroes, since we are all intelligent, blessed, special and unique.

Those who bring laughter to others cannot keep it from themselves. Let us all help others laugh at troubles, because laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face.

If you would like to make a difference and help Sarah, and the other St. Monica girls, to realize their dreams, please join the MFFO 12 for 12 in 2012 program! If you can spare just $12 a month—the price of one movie ticket—you can support a girl’s education!

 

Happy Birthday Grace!!

Happy Birthday Sweet Grace! We hope you have a wonderful birthday!
Everyone at MFFO loves and misses you!

Hundreds of New Photos on Flickr!

We have uploaded hundreds of new photos of our past volunteer trips!
Check out MFFO’s Flickr page and take a look!

 

 

 

Our New Page of The Girls!

We are so excited about our NEW PAGE featuring each of the girls at Saint Monica’s!
You’ll learn
a little bit about each one & see for yourself why we love them so much!

 

$12 for 12 in 2012

Can You Afford $12 Per Month?

We have been blessed with wonderful sponsors who have met 100% of the girls education needs, which is a major achievement. The girls at Saint Monica’s are well on their way to a quality eduction, and a brighter future.

Now we want to make sure the home runs smoothly as well.

Running a home for 35 girls in Nairobi, Kenya is less expensive than you might think, around $7000 US per month. That covers everything! This includes staff wages, rent, utilities food and medical care. We’re looking for 600 people who can afford $12 per month. This will insure that our girls needs are met each and every day.

$12 per month. That’s just three Grande Latte’s at Starbucks. It’s one movie ticket. Or a pedicure on just one foot. :) Can you afford $12 per month? If you can, donate now and help us insure the future for 35 deserving Kenyan orphans.

 

Donate $12 Per Month in 2012!

New Photos Up on Facebook!

We do have a Mothers Fighting For Others Facebook Page and we just updated a bunch of photos! If you get a chance, please go take a look, see last months volunteer trip and updated photos of all of the girls at Saint Monica’s!

Hope to see you there!

 

Desiree and Al Bring Their Christmas To Kenya

Desiree and Al brought a ton of supplies for the girls
to decorate the home this holiday season.
It looks like Teresia had a lot of fun making her decorations today!

Heading Back to Kenya

Dez & Al meeting Ann after 4 years

This past April, Desiree Daniels and Al Sodaro, headed to Kenya to finally meet the girls that they have been supporting for the past four years. Desiree is also an MFFO Board Member. It was an amazing experience for everyone. We are so very excited that they are heading back next week. And trust me, so are the girls in Kenya.

There is so much to say about your first trip to the home to see the girls, but no one has ever explained it quite like Al himself. This video was prepared for the attendees at our Gift of Education Fundraiser this year in Gaithersburg, Maryland back in October. Please take a moment and listen to Al tell his personal story.

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Thank you Al and Desiree for loving the girls so fully and proving to all of us once again that love is never limited by distance or time. Please give each and every one of them a hug from all of us… volunteers, sponsors, donors and friends.

Tell them we love them all and hope that they have a wonderful holiday and new year!

Safe journey my friends.

 

Another Successful Gift Of Education Fundraiser!

We had an amazing night on Saturday at the 2011 GOE Fundraiser for the 2012 school year! We raised over $25,000 for school fees for the girls at Saint Monica Children’s Home. The food was simply amazing and there were tons of items that were auctioned off.

Audrey and Mike Forshey, with the help from their AMAZING team, put together another great night of fun, food, and a beautiful atmosphere of love.

We thank each and everyone of you who attended this year and look forward to your continued support!

Just One…

If you can’t feed a hundred people, then feed just one.

Mother Teresa

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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